So there are lots of things I hear that will attract girls. I know that every girl is different. But what do think guys have that attract girls and make them swoon (hair (long or short), big or tall, eyes, anything else?).

In a survey of over 100 women, most women said confidence was the main thing they found attractive about men. In terms of physical qualities, the highest ranked item was “a good smile”.

If you want to attract girls, use confidence. Don’t try and be a “nice guy” and be all in tune with her feelings and all that girly mushy stuff. She’ll view you as “friend” material only if you do that. Be confident using the three C’s: Cool, Calm, and in Control.

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I was with my gf for 9 months. We broke up 3 months ago and I’m still not over her. How long will it take? I so hate her because she treated me like crap the last 4 months we were together and so lied to me. I loved her sooo much and now it’s over and I’m all alone:( How long will it take to feel better?

The length of time it will take is very individualized and it depends on your personality type. This probably was the first really significant relationship and subsequent loss you have experienced. Everyone has one of those… then they learn to hold back something of themselves to regenerate from after that. Rather than putting their entire heart and soul on the line.

It really can be devastating. There are so many variables that can make this worse. When you really have blended your feelings and experiences with (more…)

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My girlfriend and I dated for almost two years. She broke up with me about two weeks ago. She said that she still wants to be friends. I want more than friendship. Well she agreed to come watch a movie with me on Friday night and I want to know what the perfect romance movie to choose. Please help!

Look, I think you are making a bad move here. When the movie starts, she’s going (more…)

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