So you want to know how to pick up women from a night club or bar? Then listen up. Before you go out make sure you cut your nose hairs, ear hairs, and that you don’t have a unibrow. Many guys fail to pick up women because of ugly nose or ear hairs.

Put on one interesting item, an unusual jacket if it’s cold, a pendant, or a ring. You want to wear something that stands out and will get people talking to you or that you can build a conversation around.

To pick up women you need to show confidence. When you arrive, show confidence from the moment you walk in the door. Walk in confidently. Keep your head high, walk slowly, and smile. How you enter a night club or bar can set the tone for how people react to you the rest of the night.

If you’re alone, approach a group right away. It is easier to pick up women if you are part of a group. Women feel more comfortable talking (more…)

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I’m an Asian guy who is 20 years old. I am short and I hate it. I look like a kid around all my friends! What can I do to attract girls in university without looking like a joke?

Are all your friends non-Asian? You need to hang out with other Asian guys because in the Asian community, your height will be more average and you won’t stand out as the boy in the group of men.

Also, you want to hunt within the Asian community. Asian girls have a tendency to be shorter as well.

Finally, the most important thing you need to do is to be confident. Don’t let a girl know that your height bothers you. Also, don’t try and be a “nice guy”. Big guys that can scare girls have better luck using the “nice guy” approach. As a smaller guy, you need to use confidence. Go to the gym if that will help you with your confidence. I’ve seen some hot looking, short and buff Asian guys.

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So there are lots of things I hear that will attract girls. I know that every girl is different. But what do think guys have that attract girls and make them swoon (hair (long or short), big or tall, eyes, anything else?).

In a survey of over 100 women, most women said confidence was the main thing they found attractive about men. In terms of physical qualities, the highest ranked item was “a good smile”.

If you want to attract girls, use confidence. Don’t try and be a “nice guy” and be all in tune with her feelings and all that girly mushy stuff. She’ll view you as “friend” material only if you do that. Be confident using the three C’s: Cool, Calm, and in Control.

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