There’s nothing quite like that dull aching pain. Knowing that the person that once wanted to be with you all the time now doesn’t want to be with you anymore. No matter how amicable a break is, its still painful, its like someones died. I just want to know what you do personally to pick your self back up and shake it off.
I imagine you will be getting a number of different answers which are based on the experiences of the person answering your question. However, you will find that it will not help you.
The only thing that heals a wound is time, and time alone. The reason time heals is that the synaptic pathways within the brain die off, or become less activated over time. It is a biological process that you have to allow to take place. To help it alone, don’t sit and ponder and dwell on it. Don’t try and figure out where things went wrong, what you did wrong, etc. You will find that slowly your pain will fade and you will find another who will make you forget your previous friend. So don’t fret and get on with your life because things will become better.
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Beer, beer and more beer to kill those brain cells.
I drink untill I cant remeber. There is no sudden cure though, just try and do stuff, take up a new hobby to keep your mind busy. I had terrible heart ache 6 months ago after a 4 year relantionship fell apart.
Been there it takes along long time to get over it and yeah the hurt of feeling someone dosnt want you and the rejection is by far the worst pain in the world, you move on with your life meet new people think why you broke up in the first place try not to think of the good times as this will only make you feel worse if you can get any worse dont keep in contact with the person as this just cause confusion and leaves you hanging on the thought that one day yous will get back you do this and you will never move on iv been there the best thing is just to close all ties i know it hurts but there is a reason why yous broke up move on oh and beleive me when you move on they are sure to come back..but then you have to decide do you really want them back i did but didnt take him back as i knew it would just be same as before and it was best decision iv ever made in my life met the love off my life few years later.
Give yourself time to get over it, it will be painful for quite a while, but just keep telling yourself the reason why you broke up, and that there would have been no future for you both!! We have all been there, youre not alone in feeling like this!! Just keep going, do things you like doing, try not to go over the ifs and buts because it gets you nowhere, keep your chin up, it will get better!!
get my girl friends go shopping something to eat ,keep myself busy so i dont think of it as when i do it hurts ..Get them round watch a movie have really girly time while they tell me he was no good they never liked him…Try to hate him then you wont wanna be with him …………..
if he dont feel the same and has moved on then im sorry ,its going to be hard lifes a bit*h ..but ur gonna have to move on too…
good luck ….
o nd have a good time get fit ..show him what he is missing make him jealous.
well speaking personally i can tell you that onlytime can cure this…
no matter what one does..that person unconciously slips into your mind..the best is not to think about it..u would say thats not possible but seriously it is..and obviously you need to cut ur self off with all links..
a friend of mine once burnt her bfs pic..and she felt sooo good about it..
and yeah time would heal..because more the efforts you make how to forget him..the more you will think about him so just get preoccupied with your current life.
i buy a bottle of scotch and consume it!
The only thing you can do is go out and meet someone else.But the only thing that fixes this is time.