A subscriber to Best Free Dating Advice.com writes:

“When it comes to women and dating how do u go about understanding it? When u talk to a girl do u have any idea what you are going to do to attract this girl? I feel like I’m starting to get into the game of dating and it is fun which is what it should be about. I like testing girls to see how far I can get them to go. Just to push their boundaries a little. Any dating advice?”

Yeah, don’t be clingy, needy, or a wussy. Don’t tell them your sob stories or things you don’t like about yourself. If you have a disability or illness, wait until she’s totally into you before telling her.

And most importantly, remember the three C’s: calm, cool, collected, and in control.

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I’m an Asian guy who is 20 years old. I am short and I hate it. I look like a kid around all my friends! What can I do to attract girls in university without looking like a joke?

Are all your friends non-Asian? You need to hang out with other Asian guys because in the Asian community, your height will be more average and you won’t stand out as the boy in the group of men.

Also, you want to hunt within the Asian community. Asian girls have a tendency to be shorter as well.

Finally, the most important thing you need to do is to be confident. Don’t let a girl know that your height bothers you. Also, don’t try and be a “nice guy”. Big guys that can scare girls have better luck using the “nice guy” approach. As a smaller guy, you need to use confidence. Go to the gym if that will help you with your confidence. I’ve seen some hot looking, short and buff Asian guys.

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So there are lots of things I hear that will attract girls. I know that every girl is different. But what do think guys have that attract girls and make them swoon (hair (long or short), big or tall, eyes, anything else?).

In a survey of over 100 women, most women said confidence was the main thing they found attractive about men. In terms of physical qualities, the highest ranked item was “a good smile”.

If you want to attract girls, use confidence. Don’t try and be a “nice guy” and be all in tune with her feelings and all that girly mushy stuff. She’ll view you as “friend” material only if you do that. Be confident using the three C’s: Cool, Calm, and in Control.

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