I met this girl at the university I’m attending. We really hit it off. I have asked her out. Should I continue to flirt with other girls? Should I keep dating other girls at the university to make her more attracted to me? I have heard that if you show you are in high demand with many girls wanting you, it will make girls more interested in you. Is that true? This whole attracting girls at the university could get her mad at me and backfire.

Yes. You should do this. Girls are very jealous and territorial by nature. Doing this will attract her even more. Don’t stop doing this until things get more serious and you and her agree to see each other exclusively.

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A subscriber to Best Free Dating Advice.com writes:

“When it comes to women and dating how do u go about understanding it? When u talk to a girl do u have any idea what you are going to do to attract this girl? I feel like I’m starting to get into the game of dating and it is fun which is what it should be about. I like testing girls to see how far I can get them to go. Just to push their boundaries a little. Any dating advice?”

Yeah, don’t be clingy, needy, or a wussy. Don’t tell them your sob stories or things you don’t like about yourself. If you have a disability or illness, wait until she’s totally into you before telling her.

And most importantly, remember the three C’s: calm, cool, collected, and in control.

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I am doing all the reading I can about her culture because I’m totally afraid of inserting my foot in my mouth. I don’t want to say or do something that will offend her. I want to treat her like I do any other woman, with respect. She is so different than any other woman that I have dated. I want to make sure I show her a good time. Can you give me any helpful Jewish dating advice?

You need to avoid two things: religion and politics. I’m not saying you should be religiously ignorant, I think it’s great you are studying her culture. What I’m saying is don’t think that she’s all about what you read about her culture and don’t think that she’s all about religion. Let her take the lead with religion. If she talks about it, go for it, but don’t you constantly be bringing it up. Just focus on showing her a great time.

The second subject you need to avoid is politics. Among Israelis politics is a real area of dispute to the point of violence occasionally. Israelis are very sensitive to politics. If you meet her family and her dad tries to lure you into a political discussion (as Israeli fathers often do in order to feel you out), side step. Dodge and weave.

The worst thing you can do is to grab a Jewish joke from the Internet. You can’t even crack an innocent joke with most Israelis. Also, don’t mention the word Arab.

Now younger people are less into politics and less sensitive in this area but watch out for her parents.

Usually you want to ask a lot of general questions to keep a fun and light conversation.

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