I’m an Asian guy who is 20 years old. I am short and I hate it. I look like a kid around all my friends! What can I do to attract girls in university without looking like a joke?

Are all your friends non-Asian? You need to hang out with other Asian guys because in the Asian community, your height will be more average and you won’t stand out as the boy in the group of men.

Also, you want to hunt within the Asian community. Asian girls have a tendency to be shorter as well.

Finally, the most important thing you need to do is to be confident. Don’t let a girl know that your height bothers you. Also, don’t try and be a “nice guy”. Big guys that can scare girls have better luck using the “nice guy” approach. As a smaller guy, you need to use confidence. Go to the gym if that will help you with your confidence. I’ve seen some hot looking, short and buff Asian guys.

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So there are lots of things I hear that will attract girls. I know that every girl is different. But what do think guys have that attract girls and make them swoon (hair (long or short), big or tall, eyes, anything else?).

In a survey of over 100 women, most women said confidence was the main thing they found attractive about men. In terms of physical qualities, the highest ranked item was “a good smile”.

If you want to attract girls, use confidence. Don’t try and be a “nice guy” and be all in tune with her feelings and all that girly mushy stuff. She’ll view you as “friend” material only if you do that. Be confident using the three C’s: Cool, Calm, and in Control.

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I’m a Sagittarius guy who fell in love with Pisces and Scorpio girls in the past and ended up suffering. I don't want to repeat that mistake in my life. I've realized that being good friends and having fun together is the key to long term happiness for both partners.

From what I have observed in my own life and also going by what astrology says, I am most compatible with a Leo girl and/or an Aries girl. How do I attract girls of these two signs?

Whether you use Astrology or not, you must be confident. This is especially true with Aries women. Aries women will take it a step further and will test you by poking at you to see if you stay confident. If an Aries woman acts like she’s mad, don’t say, “I’m so sorry, please forgive me.” Instead say, “Ohhh… poor baby didn’t get her way. Have you been throwing a temper tantrum like this since you were 2 every time you didn’t get your way?” Aries women love to fight and they’ll find you extremely interesting if you joust with them and aren’t just another limp “Nice Guy”.

Also, don’t let the Aries woman take control from you. She’ll appreciate having the control, but will view you as as weak and lose interest fast. If she says, “Let’s sit here,” say “No. Let’s sit right next to those chairs here.” If she says, “Call me,” say “No. You call me, you know you’re into me.” Get the point? Stay in control.

This is true for all women but especially for Aries women.

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